The once-wife emails me regularly about the yahoos, notably no. 3 who lives with her. She has my name in her email under the name I use here and with friends, which just irritates the piss outta me. I've never been that person to her. Maybe she feels like if I was, then we'd have had more connection, but that's clear nonsense. Insisting on labeling me that way feels to me like stuffing me into some box and denying me any identity as myself. I dunno. I guess I thought that crap would end.

Maybe it should be inconsequential.